"You made me..." Has anyone ever told you that? Yep, it's happened to me.
Just thinking about Jon (as in J&K plus 8) and his quote from his mother. Not that it was originally from her, but worth quoting nonetheless: Life is about choices.
No one "makes" anyone do or say anything. It's all choice.
Even if you had a gun to your head, you'd either choose to comply with the gunman and possibly live, or refuse to comply and likely die. Either way, it's still your choice.
Yep, it's about choices, baby.